My goodness, have I missed writing here, I have written about two posts and I have been walking with them on my micro SD card but time time time! Let me take time to say hi to you first, yes you, who are reading this, just to remind you, you are appreciated and thanks for taking the time...
Well, two weeks is a long time ey?, new month is here.( yaay) really excited about it, but the build up to it was full of well, a lot of issues, for the last two weeks I have been grappling, looking for answers as to why sometimes good things happen to bad people and why is life sometimes so difficult? Why is it a challenge to get by sometimes? And what happens when we are challenged? When we don’t get the result we were hoping, praying earnestly we will get...when our hearts are broken... Well, Sherlock Holmes ( fictional private investigator FYI) used to say to his colleague, Dr. Watson, " Eyes and ears" so that is what I have been doing, I have been observing and listening, which I think we need to do more of, you will be amazed at what you hear and see and how solutions come to you..
1. YOU ARE A THERMOSTAT NOT A THERMOMETRE...
Interesting huh?, well let us examine what they do, a thermostat sets the temperature while a thermometer measures it and well assumes the temperature of the surrounding.. This simply means that in life we are not to allow the circumstances and our situations define us and who we are. Wake up in the morning and make a decision to be happy, I always say happiness is a choice... Mum always says (such a mommy’s boy moment) Love on purpose...I took what she said and now I read that as “make a decision to live on purpose. Because you are created on purpose for a purpose...ok feel free to read that slowly...its ok, take your time...done? Ok let’s go on. That seemingly means that we need to understand that we are all cut out for a specific assignment a task and a purpose. Steve Harvey says: “The two most important days in your life are when you are born (for me that’s April 1st...truth) and the day you discover why" May I submit to you that you are cut out to be the best to make a mark, you are in all manner of ways marked to make a mark, there is only one you, and only you can do what you are cut out to....With all this you can be a thermostat and not a thermometer...
2. You are what you eat...
No no this is not a diet advice I am going to give you. Nope! Here let me explain. Remember eyes and ears? Well simply what are you feeding yourself with, what are you listening to? What opinions from friends or relatives have made you think the way you do? Who are you hanging around? Whose views do you hold close? Simply put what you hear, what you see and what you say, these are all feeding your mind, shaping opinions, deciding attitudes and defining your habits that will in effect determine your relationships...
Think on these a while... catch you later
Enough Said..
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